You get to know what this life wants to give you at different stages of life. In education, whether you are able to make to the institute of your choice & on your terms, whether your relative capability to get the job you wish is sufficient, & whether the skills & interests that come with the life partner that life decided for you match yours or not. You can only wait and accept. Rejecting means your desires are greater than what life wants to give you this time. Accepting and continuing gives positivity. Accepting means accepting the surprises of life- favorable or unfavorable. Accepting means knowing that life is impermanent & so are the people around you. Accepting means being peaceful in your space, not needing anyone.