That one person

That one person is causing the feeling of aversion? Whether a nation or an individual, its the same experience. A nation is averse to another nation. Just as an individual has aversion to another one.

Sometimes you win. You are gratified. Sometimes you lose. And you may sulk. Are you aware? Can you let it go? Can you practice letting it go? This is the time to practice. Practice again and again.

Letting go doesn't mean escaping. It's not avoiding. It means staying there so that you let go again and again.